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Libby’s Story

Say hello to lovely Libby who received both a chemotherapy and radiotherapy Box via Ipswich Hospital in November 2021 and then May 2022.

Libby was diagnosed at 40 with, IDC Stage 3 Grade 3. She had two surgeries, six months of chemo and 25 fractions of radiation, plus herceptin, Tamoxifen and Zoladex. She is HER2+ and ER+ 8/8. She also carries the CHEK2 mutation.

Libby is now 42. She has been in active treatment for over 18 months and will possibly be doing another year on Neratinib. She has two children and is married with a dog, four chickens and two gerbils! She works in criminal justice on a restricted basis during treatment which she is really passionate about. She likes to read and is crafty/artistic at heart, usually dabbling in several projects at any one time. Libby loves self-development and psychology, she is constantly evolving by listening to podcasts and self-help style audio books. This helps her to understand herself and make sense of the world around her. Physical activity is key to her mental wellbeing. She is also a massive advocate acupuncture, having it religiously through treatment which she believes has been key for her managing side effects – although not always easy. Chocolate covered Brazil nuts are her favourite thing to eat (at the moment!), along with Thai food. She is mostly vegetarian (apart from the occasional bit of chicken).

She said ‘The fatigue is real and I have really struggled. I am not the same woman I was before, but I thank cancer for making me realise just how sweet my life is, for making the world ever more wondrous and every experience more fulfilling, I am grateful for the perspective I’ve gained and whilst I’m no saint and am absolutely bitter, in some ways, about what I’ve lost, I have come to realise I’ve gained in so many ways too.’

Libby recalled having great fun going through her Box with her daughter, aged 10. Who was immediately drawn to the sweet and chocolate – she says ‘have you ever seen the disappointment on a child’s face when they sample a ginger sweet?’ What stood out for Libby were the creams and toothpaste. After being recommended so many things after her cancer diagnosis it can be expensive trialling products, especially if they don’t end up suiting you. She found having a popular brand like MooGoo to try really helpful as it took away the pressure of having to find everything she needed at a time ‘when your head is in a spin’.

‘What is wonderful about what you do is it’s so specific and useful… it helps people in the moment. My Little Lifts parcels felt like something just for me… I will never forget your Box… Thank you, I will forever be humbled by the kindness of strangers.’

Libby’s Top Tips:

(1) This is your journey, whatever anyone else advises you to do or not to do. You do you, there are no rules, if you want to work through treatment – work, if you want to exercise – do it! If you don’t want to speak to anyone or you want to have a party, it’s all ok… life doesn’t stop and neither should you, if you don’t want to…

(2) Try not to compare your diagnosis and journey to anyone else’s. And don’t let people compare you to others either! I’ve learnt, the hard way, that breast cancer is so complex, no two people are the same, whether it’s your diagnosis, life style, side effects or environmental factors that make you different, we will all ultimately tread our own paths.

(3) Advocate for your own treatment, ask questions and don’t be frightened to challenge medical professionals. Your biggest ally in all this is you and your body, trust your instincts…

(4) Don’t buy the first wig you think you like!

Thank you so much for sharing your story and top  tips with us Libby.